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No restrictive dieting or GLP-1 meds necessary.
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Take the quizI'm chasing a six pack and $50k in 90 days, in public, to show what's possible with capacity.
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Apply for private coachingAbout Michael
Certified life coach through The Life Coach School.
I've struggled with my weight since high school. From college on, I dieted up and down.
After I bought a bakery, the weight climbed. On May 26, 2023, I weighed 252.2 pounds and decided to try one last time.
I lost 60 pounds in about six months. But I lost muscle too, and I looked thinner than I wanted, not better.
So I hired my own coach, learned the mental tools, and built my own formula.
Then came HOT 75: 42 pounds in 75 days. And it never felt hard, because the capacity was there.
Now it's my mission to help other over-functioners create bodies and lives they love, using the ADD RESPECT Method.
I live in Raleigh, NC with my husband, Gadiel, and our dog, Amelia.
Tell me a little about where you are. I'll reply personally.